Where Did My Libido Go?
Where Did My Libido Go?
You Don't Feel Broken.
You just feel… gone.
Gone from your body.
Gone from your desire.
Gone from the woman you used to be the one who used to laugh without second-guessing, touch without freezing up, and feel everything instead of nothing.
And the worst part?
You can’t explain it.
Not to your partner. Not to your doctor. Not even to yourself.
Because this isn’t just about sex, it’s about silence.
It’s about how long you’ve been pretending to be okay.
If you’ve ever laid in bed next to someone you love and whispered, “What happened to me?” this book is your answer.
Where Did My Libido Go?
A raw, 76-page digital guide for the woman who’s still functioning… but no longer feeling like herself.*
This is for the high-functioning woman who checks all the boxes and still feels completely disconnected.
It’s not a sex manual.
It’s not a hormone checklist.
It’s not a “just do more Kegels” guide.
👉 It’s a truth-telling.
👉 It’s a reckoning.
👉 It’s your emotional comeback — from the inside out.
What You’ll Find Inside:
Brutally honest “inner voice” commentary that finally puts your quietest thoughts into words
The Delusion Loop & Translation Table (you’ll never read a text or apology the same way again)
Soul-level journal prompts, voice memo cues, and comeback quotes for every stage of numbness, anger, or awakening
A full-body reclamation of sensuality, safety, and self-worth — without shame, pressure, or pretending
Sections on emotional erasure, relational fatigue, libido loss, and the quiet grief no one else sees.
QUIZ: Where Did My Libido Go?
“You’re not broken. You’re just buried.”
Take this 7-question quiz to see what your silence might be saying.
1. When was the last time you wanted intimacy, not out of obligation, guilt, or habit, but because you actually felt it in your body?
- Last week
- A few months ago
- I honestly can’t remember
- I’ve never truly felt that way
2. Do you ever lie there hoping it’ll be over soon, even if you love the person, you’re with?
- No
- Sometimes
- More than I want to admit
- That’s my norm
3. Which of these thoughts have crossed your mind in the last 30 days? (Select all that apply)
☐ “I miss the old me”
☐ “Maybe I’m just not wired like other women”
☐ “I feel touched out and shut down”
☐ “I don’t know what I want anymore”
☐ “If I fake it, maybe they won’t notice”
4. Do you ever feel angry, resentful, or invisible - but you can’t quite explain why?
- Rarely
- Occasionally
- Often
- Constantly — and I don’t talk about it
5. Have you ever said “I’m just tired” or “I’m not in the mood” - when the truth was deeper than that?
- No, I always speak honestly
- Maybe once
- More times than I can count
- That’s the only way I know how to protect myself
6. When you think about your body right now, your first feeling is…
- Gratitude
- Indifference
- Disconnection
- Shame, tension, or sadness
7. What would it mean to feel alive, wanted, and connected again - not just sexually, but emotionally?
- A bonus
- A hope I’ve given up on
- A full-body reset
- Everything
What Your Answers Might Be Telling You:
This quiz isn’t about how much you want sex; it’s about how deeply you’ve been ignoring yourself to stay functional.
- Mostly A’s: You’re managing but there’s room to reconnect before the numbness becomes the norm.
- Mostly B’s: You’re drifting. Your body is whispering, and it’s time to listen.
- Mostly C’s: You’re emotionally unplugged not because you’re cold, but because you’ve gone quiet inside.
- Mostly D’s: You’ve been gone from yourself for too long. This book is your invitation back.
Ready to stop feeling like a stranger in your own body?
Where Did My Libido Go? is your emotional comeback raw, real, and written for every woman who’s been silently asking, what happened to me?
Includes:
✔️ Instant PDF download for private reading
✔️ Flipbook version (for calm, cozy page-turning)
✔️ Full access to the Real and Radiant collection as new tools release
Your libido isn’t gone.
It’s waiting for you to come home to yourself.
No more shame. No more performance. No more pretending you're fine.
This is the book you didn’t know you needed — until you read the first page.
👉 Download Where Did My Libido Go? and begin your comeback story now.
You don’t feel broken — you just feel gone. Where Did My Libido Go? is a raw, 76-page digital guide for the woman who’s stopped feeling like herself — in her body, in her bed, or in her own story. This isn’t a sex manual or hormone checklist. It’s a truth-telling, soul-level homecoming to the version of you that got buried under burnout, pressure, and silence. Inside, you’ll find journal prompts, voice memo cues, emotional tools, and brutally honest inner voice reflections that name what you’ve been too tired to explain. Your desire didn’t disappear. It’s been waiting for you to come back home to yourself.